Dating is not all it's cracked up to be.....

UGH! I swear I am so done with Men!

I hadn't divulged earlier but I've been dabbling again with Online Dating. For me it is the smartest and easiest way to meet Singles locally. Why is it that I continue to put myself in front of the BUS and all I get is J-E-R-K-S!?!

For example...yesterday I met a guy named Barry at a restaurant for Bloody Mary's and Breakfast. We had been chatting online and phone for almost 2 weeks and we had so much in common it was almost scary.

Anyhow, he greeted me with a Big Hug and we proceeded to go inside. I was nervous as Hell but once I got that Bloody Mary in my hand I began to feel better. LOL We had a really nice breakfast on the outdoor Patio and flowing conversation for 3 1/2 hours.

He actually was better looking than his Pic and I was pleasantly surprised. As for him, he commented more than once what a classy and beautiful woman I was. When we decided to part he walked me to my car and gave me another big ol Bear Hug and then kissed me twice on the lips. Ummm Yeah I was surprised he kissed me, but then thought to myself things MUST have gone good for him too. I left with a smile on my face and happiness in my heart. I was sure I'd hear from him again....

Ummmm....W-R-O-N-G

This morning I wake up to a Text message from Mr. Shmooser that said~

Good morning Sunshine, I hope you have a great day! I think we should just be friends. You are a nice lady and very pretty but I don't think it's gonna go any further. Sorry, I hope you understand and we can be friends.

 O.K. it wasn't like I had us walking down the aisle or anything but.......

WTF!

After going back and forth with him a few times I asked him why he kissed me and that I was kinda confused. He said: I'm sorry if I confused you that was not my intent.

O.K. AGAIN......WTF?!?

I will NEVER understand MEN. It makes me never want to try again, but I know I will cuz I'm STUPID plain and simple. I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face because once again I am hurt. Is it really worth it all?? I'm beginning to think NOT!

So for now....I remain "Single"

Next time I'll share with you the"Funny" things that have happened to me since searching for a mate. These Men definately gave me something to laugh about......